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]]>The Church has not hesitated to present Saint Joseph to us as Patron of the Universal Church since 1870, and recently the Popes have returned to it time and again, emphasizing its humble, strong, and creative fatherhood.
There is something very striking about this season of Advent: we put lights on the streets, make plans, think about gifts... but the Gospel presents us, almost without fanfare, with a man who seems to go unnoticed: Saint Joseph.
In a world where it seems that only those who make noise exist, José is the patron saint of all those who sustain life from the sidelines: parents who do not appear on any posters, grandparents who act as a safety net, anonymous workers, religious sisters in small communities, lay people who serve in humble parishes... all those who, if they fail, everything falls apart, but who almost never appear in the picture.
This article is about him. And, above all, about us with him.
The Gospel defines him with a single word: “righteous” (Mt 1:19). That is, a man who lives in the presence of God, who takes His will seriously, even if he does not fully understand it.
We do not have a single word of his. Nothing. And yet God entrusts him with his own Son and the Virgin Mary. And that already dismantles many of our ideas about “success” today, about influence and prominence.
Furthermore, there is a beautiful detail in the life of Saint Joseph: the great decisions of his life come at night, in dreams. At night he learns that he must take Mary in. At night he is told to flee to Egypt. At night he knows when to return.
There are no speeches, no grand arguments, no dramatic dialogues. There is silence, listening, and obedience. In a time like ours, saturated with noise, opinions, and perpetual discussions, the figure of Joseph is uncomfortable because he brings us back to the essential: before deciding, we must listen.
When life gets complicated, we fill ourselves with noise: messages, calls, opinions, social media, “consultations” everywhere... José, on the other hand, enters in silence. He listens. He discerns. And then he acts.
The Church Fathers insisted that Joseph's true greatness lies not in the flesh, but in faith: he is a father because he trusts God, because he places himself totally at the service of the divine plan in favor of Jesus and Mary. Tradition reminds us that his “yes” is no less radical than that of the Virgin: he too accepts, without fully understanding, a path that disrupts his human plans.
In a culture that confuses freedom with constant improvisation, Joseph teaches us a different kind of freedom: the freedom to obey God when His plans contradict our own.
One of the most striking features that the Church sees in Joseph is his way of exercising fatherhood: firm but not domineering; present but not intrusive; responsible but without appropriating either Jesus or Mary.
José is both an uncomfortable and luminous mirror.
God entrusts Jesus and Mary to him, but he does not place himself at the center. He cares for, protects, decides, works... but never takes ownership. He knows that this Child is not “his” project. He could have felt himself in the background, but he chooses to be a guardian, not an owner.
The Popes have described Joseph as a “father in the shadows”: the shadow is not darkness, it is the discreet presence that allows another to be the center.
In times of rampant narcissism, of “egos” inflated by selfies and likes, the figure of Saint Joseph, a man who disappears so that Christ may shine, is profoundly countercultural.
This has enormous power today:
Because abuses of power, conscience, and even spiritual abuses that have caused so much damage arise from precisely the opposite: from people who take ownership of other people's souls, stories, and decisions. They want to be owners where they have only been asked to be custodians.
Saint Joseph, on the other hand, is the image of one who supports without crushing, who guides without manipulating, who leads without chaining. That takes a lot of humility. And a lot of faith.
St. Augustine said that St. Joseph is a father “more through charity than through flesh.” He is a father because he loves by setting free, because his authority resembles that of God: an authority that does not crush, but lifts up.
Sometimes we imagine holiness as resignedly enduring whatever comes our way. But that's not it. Look at Joseph: when the angel tells him to flee to Egypt because Herod is looking for the Child, he gets up in the night, takes the Child and his Mother, and leaves. No drama, no delays, no speeches. He acts.
Recent Church tradition has called this “creative courage”: knowing how to seek new paths when things go wrong, without losing trust in God.
Isn't that exactly what we often lack?
José does not simply suffer the circumstances. He faces them. He gets through them. He trusts, yes, but he also uses his head and his hands. That balance would do us a lot of good: pray more, yes; but also get up more, speak more clearly, take more action.
There is a scene that the Gospel does not recount, but which the Christian imagination has meditated on for centuries: Jesus in the workshop with Joseph, learning the trade. The Son of God, with a gouge in his hand, raising sawdust, listening to his earthly father explain how to adjust a beam.
Isn't that a beautiful scandal? God Himself made Man learning to work with another man.
That silent scene dignifies the work of millions of people: the cleaner, the night nurse, the mother who never stops at home, the teacher who gives his all in class, the call center operator, the priest who spends the afternoon listening to people in his office, the nun who cares for the elderly.
Not every job will be brilliant, dreamlike, or stable. Sometimes it will be precarious, poorly paid, routine. But Joseph reminds us of something very liberating: the value of your work does not depend on the applause you receive, but on the love with which you do it and to whom you offer it.
Perhaps this Advent we could look at our own work—whatever it may be—as that little workshop in Nazareth where everyday life is sanctified.
Saint John Paul II emphasized that Joseph reveals the dignity of human work as participation in the work of the Creator and as service to family life.
In a world where so many feel “discarded” professionally—people over 50, young people without opportunities, people with invisible jobs—José becomes a patron, an example, and a companion on the journey.
The Church declared Saint Joseph Patron of the Universal Church. This is not a decorative title. It is a way of saying that today's Church is very much like the Child Jesus in his arms: fragile, threatened, in need of protection, and at the same time the bearer of something immense that is not hers, but God's.
We are living in times of painful wounds in the Church: scandals, abuse, disillusionment, mistrust. Sometimes we feel like distancing ourselves, or living our faith “in private” so as not to complicate things.
But Joseph does not abandon the Child when the situation becomes complicated. He does not turn away when Herod appears, when dangers arise, when nights of flight begin. It is precisely then that his mission is at stake.
Caring for the Church today—each from our own place—is very Josephine: defending what is essential, protecting the weakest, not getting involved in power games, not relativizing evil, but also not losing hope. It is not closing our eyes to wounds, but putting our shoulder to the wheel to heal them.
And here it may be worth saying something clearly: the Church will emerge from this crisis, above all, thanks to the silent holiness of many anonymous “Josephs.” Of religious women who live their dedication faithfully. Of lay people who do their jobs well and educate their children well. Of priests who serve without making a fuss. Of married couples who forgive each other seventy times seven times.
What does it mean, in practice, to live this Advent “with Saint Joseph”?
Like Joseph, God also “interrupts” our plans: an illness, an unexpected change, a crisis in marriage, a professional failure. Advent is a time to ask ourselves sincerely: Am I willing to let God change my plans, or do I just want Him to bless the ones I've already made?
Parents, educators, church leaders, team leaders: we all need to learn from Joseph's example. More presence and less control; more listening and less imposing; more example and less moralizing.
The birth of Jesus does not take place in a perfect setting: there are censuses, displacements, precariousness, a manger as a crib. God does not wait for life to be “in order” to make himself present. Saint Joseph helps us to look at our biography—with its wounds, limitations, and sins—not as an obstacle, but as a place where God wants to be born.
That report that no one appreciates, those hours in the kitchen, accompanying a sick person, that quiet study, that shift at the hospital, that sleepless night with a child... These are the workshop of Nazareth today. Lived with God, they sustain the world.
In a society where visibility is confused with importance, during this Advent season the Church presents us with a saint who reminds us of something very simple and very liberating: you don't have to be in the picture to be at the heart of the story of salvation.
Perhaps what is most relevant about Saint Joseph today is precisely this: he is the saint of those who hold up the world without anyone noticing.
Those who get up early to go to work reluctantly, but go anyway.
Those who endure an illness without complaining all day long.
Those who give their all for their children, their students, their elderly.
Those who have been hurt by the Church, but continue to love her and pray for her.
Those who, with their sins and weaknesses, say every day: “Lord, here I am; I don't understand everything, but I trust.”.
This Advent, as we look at the nativity scene, we can focus a little more on that figure who almost always remains in the background, with his staff in his hand, watching silently. He doesn't need to speak. His entire life is already a word.
And perhaps our prayer could be as simple as this:
Saint Joseph, teach me to be where God wants me, even if no one sees me, even if I don't appear in the photo, without noise, without fear, and without wanting to be the center of attention.
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]]>La entrada «De María numquam satis» se publicó primero en Omnes.
]]>The faith of the Church confesses Mary Theotokos, Mother of God, not to exaggerate her greatness, but to protect the truth of Jesus Christ: true God and true man. We learned this in Ephesus (431), when the Fathers, moved by the faith of the simple, proclaimed with force what was already lived in the liturgy: "He who was born of Mary is the eternal Word made flesh". If Christ were not a single divine person, Mary would not be the Mother of God; and if Mary were not the Mother of God, Christ would not be Emmanuel. In her name Christology is guarded.
St. Irenaeus (2nd c.) saw it with an eagle's eye: just as the knot of Eve's disobedience was untied by Mary's obedience, "what the virgin Eve tied with unbelief, the Virgin Mary untied with faith". In Mary, God recapitulates human history from the beginning: one woman, one word, one yes. What was crooked is straightened out in the simplicity of Nazareth.
"Let it be done to me according to your word" (Lk 1:38). It is not resignation, it is freedom in its highest state: the freedom that is entrusted. St. Ambrose taught the virgins of Milan that in Mary virginity is not sterile: it is spousal, fully fruitful by the Spirit. In her humanity offers to God the cleanest part of itself, and God responds by giving her his own fruit. It is not by chance that St. Augustine, so zealous for the initiative of grace, emphasized that Mary conceived first in faith and then in the womb: fides concepit, fides peperit. That is why her "yes" was not only an emotional moment; it was a way of life. Mary is the "yes" made flesh.
Scripture traces in fine ink what tradition will read in the paschal light. The Daughter of Zion welcomes the Holy One of Israel; the Ark of the Covenant, which David receives with trembling, reappears in the visitation: the Word comes to the house of Zechariah and John leaps in Elizabeth's womb as David danced before the Ark (cf. 2 Sam 6; Lk 1). The mountains tremble, the Spirit covers with its shadow, and the blessing is poured out in the form of a Magnificat. St. Ephrem, the Harp of the Spirit, likes bold images: the Infinite is carried by the arms of an adolescent girl; the Fire rests without burning; the bush burns and is not consumed. None of this is literature: it is dogmatic in poetry.
The three names run through the liturgy like a litany of identity. Virgin: not out of rejection, but out of total availability to God. Mother: not only of Christ, but of the living (cf. Jn 19:26-27), because Mary's motherhood is enlarged at the hour of the Cross when the Son gives her as an inheritance to the nascent Church. Bride: icon of the Church, the first believer, perfect image of what the Bride is called to be for the Bridegroom. St. John Damascene - theologian of beauty - will contemplate in her Dormition the passage of the one who brought Life to full life, "the Virgin who, being heaven, made room for the Uncontainable".
When the Church, centuries later, proclaims the Immaculate Conception (1854) and the Assumption (1950), she does not add late embellishments to a sentimental devotion. It recognizes, with surgeon's precision, two truths that spring from the heart of the Redemption. The Immaculate Conception is not a capricious "exception", but the fulfillment in advance of the destiny of the Church: everything is grace and grace can - and wants to - conquer from the very first moment. The Assumption, for its part, does not take Mary's foot off the ground; it gives it back to us in heaven. In her we see the fulfillment of the promise: the flesh, when it is taken by God, does not hinder, it sings.
It may seem paradoxical, but theology learns from Mary the essentials of the method: listening, pondering, guarding, obeying. Luke reveals that "Mary kept all these things, pondering them in her heart" (Lk 2:19). Theology that does not meditate - that does not pray - ends up being a game of mirrors. Mary teaches a thought that kneels down without renouncing rigor; that discerns without mutilating the mystery; that confesses without anxiety of control. The Fathers prayed by thinking and thought by praying: that is why their treatises smell of incense. One does not enter this school by academic opposition, but by conversion.
Because to speak of Mary is to speak of the way in which God saves. God does not enter history with an imperial roar, but by begging for a yes. He exposes himself to the freedom of a creature - and through that beloved risk - he inaugurates salvation. When the Church contemplates Mary, she learns her own form: she does not impose herself, she proposes; she does not conquer, she engenders; she does not celebrate herself, she magnifies the Lord. De Maria numquam satis means that we will never exhaust the praise of God's work in a woman, and that in her littleness God has become close to us.
Many reduce Marian devotion to a set of acts, valuable but peripheral. Tradition, however, places it at the heart of discipleship. The Rosary, the Gospel prayer par excellence, is not a talisman of emergencies, but a school of vision: by the hand of the Mother, the mysteries of Christ traverse the day and shape it. Marian memory protects us from two temptations: that of a disincarnated Christianity (which disdains bodies, rhythms, history), and that of a soulless activism (which confuses productivity with fecundity). Mary keeps the times: the kairos of God and the chronos of our obligations; that is why Marian piety, well lived, does not take away hours, it rescues them.
From the first centuries, the Christian people have experienced the intercession of the Mother. To call her "advocate" or "helper" takes nothing away from the unique mediation of Christ (cf. 1 Tim 2:5); it puts her into action in the key of communion. All mediation in the Church is a participation in the one mediation of the Lord. Mary does not add another "line of salvation", but exercises maternity in the Mystical Body: where the Son is Head, the Mother accompanies his members. The Fathers intuited it, the saints lived it, the Magisterium explained it with sobriety. Those who fear that loving Mary will displace Christ have not yet tasted the good wine of Cana: "Do whatever he tells you" (Jn 2:5). That is his perpetual watchword.
Gratitude is the memory of the heart. Mary sings it in the Magnificat: she does not look at herself, she looks at the fidelity of God. This is why true Marian devotion is not nourished by passing emotions, but by concrete gratitude: gratitude for the faith we have received, for the gentle corrections of Providence, for God's patience with our inconsistencies. On clear days, gratitude sustains humility; on dark days, it sustains hope. "From now on all generations will praise me" (Lk 1:48): this is not vanity, it is prophecy. To bless Mary is to learn to bless history: even when deadlines, silences and crosses are painful.
We live under a sophisticated orphanhood: hyperconnected, but alone; informed, but disoriented; sensitive, but fragile. In these landscapes, Mary's motherhood is not a devotional ornament, it is the medicine of reality. She teaches us to welcome life, to guard it, to let it go when it is time. She teaches to obey without servility and to resist without hatred. Those who receive her in their homes - like John at the foot of the Cross - experience that the Church is not a spiritual NGO, but a family: with a table, with traditions, with memory, with mission.
De Maria numquam satis. What we say about her will never be enough because we will never exhaust what God has done in her. Her greatness does not drive us away; it encourages us: if grace could do such great marvels in a creature, what will it not be able to do in us if we stop negotiating with God and begin to respond as children?
Holy Mary, Mother of God and our Mother, teach us to believe, to hope and to love. And when we lack strength, repeat in our ears the motto that defines you: "Do whatever he tells you. Only in this way - with your hand on ours - will we understand that, from you, Mother, numquam satis. It will never be enough.
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]]>St. John Paul II forcefully affirmed: "mercy is the greatest attribute of God" (Dives in misericordia, 13). And Benedict XVI recalled that "the Christian faith is not above all an idea, but an encounter with an event, with a Person" (Deus Caritas Est, 1): this encounter is with Christ who, on the Cross, makes his forgiveness the visible face of divine love.
The novelty of Pope Leo XIV's catechesis lies in emphasizing that divine forgiveness is not a simple "forgetting" of sin, but a creative act. Where man destroys, God re-creates. Forgiveness not only absolves: it re-creates. Hence God's mercy is always a source of hope. The believer is not defined by his falls, but by the love that lifts him up.
However, this experience requires a spiritual path: humility and repentance. Pride closes access to grace, while sincere confession opens wide the door to forgiveness. The prodigal Son could only experience the Father's embrace when he acknowledged his misery and said: "Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you" (Lk 15:21). Mercy does not humiliate: it dignifies. But it demands the courage to recognize that we are in need.
Another decisive aspect opens up here: God's forgiveness also demands that
let us learn to forgive ourselves. Many times the Christian lives as a
if sacramental absolution would be ineffective, burdening us with faults that have already been
redeemed. But faith teaches us that the definitive judgment on our life is not
our faults, but the blood of Christ shed for us. To forgive ourselves is, ultimately, to accept God's gaze on our history.
From this certainty is born the joy of the Gospel. Forgiveness is not only psychological rest, it is ontological peace: it restores us to the state of reconciled children, brought back into communion. As the Catechism teaches, "there is no limit or measure to this essentially divine forgiveness" (CCC 2845). For this reason, the experience of mercy does not lead to resignation, but to mission: the forgiven person becomes a witness and minister of forgiveness in a world wounded by harshness and resentment.
Pope Leo XIV's catechesis invites us, in short, to contemplate forgiveness as a gift that demands humility and gives hope, humility: because recognizing one's own guilt is a condition for opening oneself to grace, hope: because every fall can become a place of encounter with the God who "makes all things new" (Rev 21:5). And above all, gratitude: because everything in the Christian life is born of grateful amazement before a God who never tires of remaking us with his mercy.
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]]>La entrada ¿Qué significa hoy ser iglesia misionera en un mundo secularizado? se publicó primero en Omnes.
]]>Faced with this panorama, many ask themselves: what is the point of talking about mission?
The temptation is to respond with nostalgia or lamentation. To recall past times when the Church marked social life, or to complain that the world no longer listens to us. But mission is not born of nostalgia, but of certainty: Christ is still alive and active. The missionary Church is not a memory, it is the very identity of the people of God. There is no other possible Church.
Today the mission is played out on a different terrain: not in the conquest of spaces, but in personal and community witness. The secularized world does not need long speeches, it needs men and women who live the faith they profess in a coherent way. To be a missionary today means to have the courage to be different without falling into arrogance, to live the joy of the Gospel in the midst of indifference.
The mission is not religious marketing either. It is not about designing expansion strategies like someone launching a new product. The mission is to go out to the encounter, like Jesus on the roads of Galilee: with compassion, closeness and truth. It is about opening spaces for listening, building bridges, showing that faith illuminates the deepest questions of the human heart.
In schools, parishes and religious communities, the mission is concretized in simple gestures: an education that forms people who are free and in solidarity; a pastoral ministry that is not limited to rites, but accompanies processes; a community that welcomes, forgives and walks with the most fragile. Mission is not measured by numbers, but by the capacity to sow hope.
The missionary Church in a secularized world is not the one that shouts the loudest, but the one that loves the most. It is the one that is not ashamed of being a minority, because it knows that the small yeast leavens the whole dough. It is not about conquering, but about serving. Not to impose, but to propose.
In short, being a missionary Church today means returning to what is essential: to proclaim with one's life that Christ is risen. And if the secularized world seems closed, all the more reason to show that the Gospel continues to be the good news capable of transforming every human heart.
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