Aller au t\u00e9l\u00e9chargement<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\nDans cette vie, il y a des moments o\u00f9 l'on n'obtient pas ce que l'on veut, mais cela ne veut pas dire que l'on arr\u00eate de se battre, de se battre pour des choses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ainsi, il y a des gens qui ont l'intention de faire une cour propre et qui n'y parviennent pas, pour quelque raison que ce soit, bien que l'on puisse toujours parler, au minimum, d'un manque de prudence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si la solution donn\u00e9e \u00e0 cette situation est que \"comme nous n'avons pas r\u00e9ussi, comme nous avons eu des rapports sexuels, quelle diff\u00e9rence cela fait-il d'avoir des rapports sexuels une fois, deux fois, cent fois...\", alors cela ne r\u00e8gle pas les choses. La tension qui doit \u00eatre pr\u00e9sente dans une cour pour faire les choses comme on voulait les faire au d\u00e9but dispara\u00eet, et l'illusion, avec le temps, dispara\u00eet aussi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ce qui se passe g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement dans ces cas-l\u00e0, c'est que, bien souvent, la relation est rompue en raison d'un manque d'illusion et, lors des fian\u00e7ailles suivantes, il est tr\u00e8s possible que le niveau soit abaiss\u00e9 : le chantage commence \u00e0 appara\u00eetre : \"Si tu l'as fait avec l'autre personne, pourquoi pas avec moi, c'est un signe que tu ne m'aimes pas...\". Et d'autres comme \u00e7a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je pense que nous devons essayer de reconstruire l'illusion dans cette cour qui se passait si bien jusqu'\u00e0 ce que le contact sexuel arrive. Comment ? En proposant de vivre la seconde virginit\u00e9. En ayant une discussion approfondie avec votre partenaire, et en recommen\u00e7ant \u00e0 z\u00e9ro, afin que l'exp\u00e9rience pr\u00e9c\u00e9dente serve \u00e0 gagner en force, en exp\u00e9rience, et \u00e0 \u00eatre plus prudent dans tout ce qui concerne la sexualit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La seconde virginit\u00e9 est un hymne \u00e0 l'espoir et \u00e0 l'illusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jusqu'\u00e0 pr\u00e9sent, cela n'a pas \u00e9t\u00e9 comme nous le voulions, mais \u00e0 partir de maintenant, cela le sera. Je l'ai vu \u00e0 plusieurs reprises et avec beaucoup de succ\u00e8s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cela dit, tout doit \u00eatre fait pour que les choses soient bien faites.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Il y a des couples qui semblent avoir des relations sans le vouloir. Pourquoi cela se produit-il ? Naturellement, parce qu'au fond d'eux-m\u00eames, ils le veulent. Il s'agit, pour ainsi dire, d'une volont\u00e9 involontaire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ils ne mettent pas les moyens, ils ne sont pas prudents, ils vont chez l'autre quand il n'y a personne, ils prennent beaucoup de temps pour se dire au revoir, ils se prom\u00e8nent dans des endroits mal \u00e9clair\u00e9s, on pourrait dire beaucoup d'autres situations que, par contre, tous les couples connaissent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Par cons\u00e9quent, ce qu'ils ne veulent th\u00e9oriquement pas voir se produire, mais qu'ils font en r\u00e9alit\u00e9 tr\u00e8s peu, se produit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ce manque de force, de t\u00e9nacit\u00e9, ce manque de volont\u00e9, appara\u00eetra plus tard dans la relation dans des milliers de situations. La vie de couple est difficile et il faut \u00eatre form\u00e9 aux exigences personnelles. La seconde virginit\u00e9 est un bon entra\u00eenement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Proposer de vivre ainsi renforce beaucoup le couple et, s'il le prend au s\u00e9rieux, r\u00e9tablit l'illusion. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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