{"id":44379,"date":"2025-01-12T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-01-12T04:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.omnesmag.com\/?p=44379"},"modified":"2025-01-10T13:49:11","modified_gmt":"2025-01-10T11:49:11","slug":"non-sposare-giovani-colombe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.omnesmag.com\/it\/firmas\/no-te-cases-joven-firma-paloma\/","title":{"rendered":"Non sposatevi giovani"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sposarsi \u00e8 una seccatura. Ma se siete giovani, lo \u00e8 ancora di pi\u00f9. Oltre al normale stress e alle conversazioni che un matrimonio genera, se siete giovani potete prepararvi ai commenti che la gente fa \"per il vostro bene\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dal \"ti perderai i migliori anni della tua vita\" al \"ci hai pensato bene\", fino al \"se va male, puoi sempre andartene\". \u00c8 incredibile il numero di opinioni non richieste che le persone danno quando dici loro che stai per sposarti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">All'inizio, quando io e mio marito ci siamo fidanzati (avevamo entrambi 23 anni) e la gente ha iniziato a dirci queste frasi meravigliose, ho cercato di spiegare. Ho ragionato con loro sulle ragioni per cui avevamo deciso di fare il grande passo. Tuttavia, non ci \u00e8 voluto molto perch\u00e9 passassi dal ragionamento al \"ci siamo sposati perch\u00e9 ce la sentivamo\", senza commentare oltre. Che bisogno c'\u00e8 di giustificare il mio matrimonio con qualcuno?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Devi capire che se sei giovane, la gente si sorprender\u00e0. Maricarmen, il problema con la gente \u00e8 che alcuni di loro fanno fatica a capire che non tutti comprano il discorso di aspettare fino a tardi per evitare che la vita familiare interrompa la carriera professionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Forse quello che succede \u00e8 che si parla e si decide da una posizione privilegiata\". Forse. Privilegio che mi ha schiaffeggiato in tempo per riordinare la mia scala di valori prima che arrivi il momento del pentimento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\"Quindi chi si sposa a una certa et\u00e0 ha sbagliato? Non lo so, signora. Lasciatemi il braccio. So solo che mi sposo perch\u00e9 ne ho voglia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La realt\u00e0 \u00e8 che nell'era dei social media ci siamo abituati a commentare la vita delle persone come se la nostra esistenza si svolgesse in un forum pubblico. Sta diventando un luogo comune trattare i giovani come ingenui. E lo siamo, ma <a href=\"https:\/\/www.omnesmag.com\/it\/firme\/gioventu-benedetta-e-senza-vergogna\/\">giovent\u00f9 benedetta e senza vergogna<\/a>che, tra l'altro, anche i pi\u00f9 anziani hanno attraversato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c8 vero che ci sono molte persone che esprimono la loro opinione e vi dicono di non sposarvi giovani. C'\u00e8 anche chi approva il vostro matrimonio, purch\u00e9 vi assicuriate che la prossima grande follia - avere figli - non vi passi per la testa. Ma questo \u00e8 un altro discorso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Di tutte le voci che ci circondano, mi rimane l'opinione di Sant'Agostino. Con amore e con testa, non sposarti giovane se non vuoi o non puoi, a meno che tu non ne abbia voglia e non veda con cuore sincero che puoi fare il passo. A meno che non ve la sentiate e non vediate con cuore sincero che potete fare il passo. Allora s\u00ec, \"ama e fai ci\u00f2 che vuoi\".<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Casarse es un jaleo. Pero si eres joven, lo es con m\u00e1s raz\u00f3n todav\u00eda. Quitando el estr\u00e9s normal y la de conversaciones que genera una boda, si encima eres joven ya puedes prepararte para los comentarios que la gente suelta \u201cpor tu bien\u201d. Desde el \u201cvas a perderte los mejores a\u00f1os de tu vida\u201d hasta [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1436,"featured_media":44383,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[47],"tags":[16,644],"class_list":["post-44379","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-firmas","tag-jovenes","tag-matrimonio"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>No te cases joven<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"No te cases joven si no quieres o no puedes. Salvo que te d\u00e9 la gana y veas que puedes dar el paso. 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