Ir a descargar<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\nEn esta vida, hay veces en que no se consigue lo que uno pretende, pero no por eso deja uno de luchar, de pelear las cosas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As\u00ed, hay personas que se propusieron tener un noviazgo limpio y no lo consiguen, por la raz\u00f3n que sea, aunque siempre podemos hablar, como m\u00ednimo, de falta de prudencia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Si la soluci\u00f3n que se da a esa situaci\u00f3n es que \u201ccomo ya no lo hemos conseguido, como hemos tenido relaciones sexuales, qu\u00e9 m\u00e1s da tener una vez, que dos, que cien…\u201d pues eso no arregla las cosas. La tensi\u00f3n que debe haber en un noviazgo por hacer las cosas como en un principio se quer\u00eda, desaparece, y la ilusi\u00f3n, con el tiempo, tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lo que suele ocurrir en estos casos es que, muchas veces, se rompe esa relaci\u00f3n por falta de ilusi\u00f3n y, en el siguiente noviazgo, es muy posible que se ponga m\u00e1s bajo el nivel: Los chantajes empiezan a aflorar \u201cSi lo hiciste con el otro\/a, por qu\u00e9 no conmigo, eso es s\u00edntoma de que no me quieres…\u201d Y otros por el estilo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yo creo que hay que intentar recomponer la ilusi\u00f3n en ese noviazgo que tan bien iba hasta que lleg\u00f3 el contacto sexual. \u00bfC\u00f3mo? Proponi\u00e9ndose vivir la segunda virginidad. Manteniendo una charla a fondo con la pareja, y recomenzando de nuevo, de tal modo que lo anterior sirva para coger fuerzas, experiencia, y para ser m\u00e1s cuidadosos en todo lo que es la sexualidad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La segunda virginidad es un canto a la esperanza y a la ilusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hasta aqu\u00ed no ha sido como quer\u00edamos, pero a partir de ahora lo ser\u00e1. Lo he visto muchas veces y con mucho \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Una vez dicho esto, hay que procurar poner todos los medios para hacer las cosas bien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hay parejas de novios que parece que todas las relaciones que tienen, son sin querer. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 ocurre esto? Naturalmente, porque en el fondo quieren. Es, por decirlo as\u00ed, un querer sin querer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
No ponen los medios, no son prudentes, van a casa del otro cuando no hay nadie, tardan en despedirse mucho tiempo, se pasean por sitios poco iluminados, se podr\u00eda decir otras muchas situaciones que, por otra parte, cada pareja conoce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Como consecuencia de esto ocurre lo que, en teor\u00eda, no quieren que pasase, pero en realidad est\u00e1n poniendo pocos medios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Esa falta de fortaleza, de reciedumbre, esa carencia de fuerza de voluntad, aparecer\u00e1 luego en la relaci\u00f3n en miles de situaciones. La vida de pareja es dif\u00edcil y hay que estar entrenados en la exigencia personal. La segunda virginidad es un buen entrenamiento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Proponerse vivir as\u00ed fortalece mucho a la pareja y si se lo toman con seriedad, devuelve la ilusi\u00f3n. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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